1 Nisan 5785/March 30, 2025
It’s the beginning of the month of Nisan on the Jewish calendar. Two weeks from today, Jews around the world commemorate the Exodus from Egypt. This year, with the release of my new book, From Illness to Exodus, I’m thinking about Jews and non-Jews alike might use this time to contemplate a different type of Exodus – from the sicknesses of body, mind, and spirit that confine them and those they love to a narrow place that will not let them live and flourish.
I wrote this book looking for ways to frame my practice of medicine and create rituals that would direct me toward being the type of physician I strive to be – one who cares for the whole person, who sees the Divine in the patient and attempts to emulate Divine behavior in my own actions.
Every good Jewish ritual begins with a Kiddush – a sanctification over wine, usually, but that seems like a bad course of action for a doctor beginning their day. So I offer this kiddush for healing, to be said over whatever you usually drink in the morning to get you going, and evoking both Hashem’s example of healing us, and the commandment for us to heal each other. Kiddush is meant to “separate in order to elevate,” in the words of my teacher and friend, Rabbi Danny Schiff. We separate an ordinary beverage and make it special – and in so doing also point out the other things that we want to bring to a higher plane, like our ability to effect healing in those who are hurting.
(ירים כוס קפה, תה, מיץ או חלב ומברך)
ברוך אתה ה’ א-להנו מלך העולם, שהכל נהיה בדברו.
ברוך אתה ה’ א-להנו מלך העולם, אשר קדשנו במצוותיו וציוונו רפוא לרפא.
ברוך אתה ה’ א-להנו מלך העולם, הדואג לאדם הראשון שלא טוב היותו לבדו, המבקר לאברהם בהחלמתו, והמנחם לרבקה בהתרוצץ בניה בקירבה. הבטחת על-שפת הים כי אתה ה’ רופאנו, שענה לתפילת משה למען מרים: “א-ל נא, רפא נא לה.”
ברוך אתה ה’, הרופא לשבורי לב וחבש לעצבותם.
(One raises a cup of coffee, tea, juice, or milk and blesses:)
Blessed are You, Hashem, our God, Sovereign of the Universe, Whose word brought everything into existence
Blessed are You, Hashem, our God, Sovereign of the Universe, who sanctified us with God’s Mitzvot and commanded us to heal true healing.
Blessed are You, Hashem, our God, Sovereign of the Universe, who worried for the first human that it was not good for him to be alone, who visited Avraham in his convalescence, and who comforted Rivka when her children chased each other about within her. You promised on the shore of the sea that you were Hashem our healer, that answered the prayer of Moshe on Miryam’s behalf: “Please God, heal her, please.”
Blessed are You, Hashem, the Healer of broken hearts and Binder of their wounds.
Now it’s your turn. Write your “healing kiddush.” Think about what perspective you’re writing from – a health professional? A family caregiver for someone who is chronically ill? A person newly diagnosed with a serious disease? What will you have in the glass you raise, and what examples will you highlight in your prayer that spell out your hopes – or lay out the road map for you to push toward your goals?
Like this:
Like Loading...
